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Giving love without expectation

Someone said that “ giving love without expectation ” made me stop and think. Is this what I have been doing all my life? I give, I serve, I endure everything without expecting anything back as a reward. The bible says, God is Love. People say love stinks, love hurts, love is painful, love is patient, love is impossible. But what about love without expectations? It means to me that I do the things that others want me to do, or ask me to do, or tell me to do, without expecting anything back. Does this make me gullible? Does this make me stupid? Does this make me a person who can not say no? I ponder on what this really means and how it affects my life and those that are around me.  Do we stop giving love because someone does not have the same mindset as you?  Do we stop giving love even though God says to love one another no matter what?  Do we stop giving love to those who get on our nerves every day?  Do we stop giving love because people don't listen to what we hav...
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Adult Children

Where do I begin? Where does it end? When does the petty bickering become a lesson of life to be learned? When will they know that they have each other, and no one will be there for them except each other? When does parenting end? We all know when it begins, but when do we as parents know when it is time to let go and leave it to them? Grown adult children can be a blessing, but they can also be a burden. Especially when they don't take it upon themselves to grow up and make decisions on their own. We guide, protect, and nurture for as long as a parent can possibly can, but who are we when it ends? Who have I become to them, besides their mom? 
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Uninspired

 Have you ever felt uninspired? A bursting feeling of thoughts and ideas rages through your mind, but you just can not move beyond those thoughts and ideas. I feel stuck and uninspired to move forward. To begin a new chapter in my life takes courage, will power, and a lot of insight and maybe a little instinct. It is hard to think of step one, step two, and going on, because I feel stuck in my thoughts and ideas. I ask myself why? I ask myself what happened to make me feel uninspired. Ask myself how I can feel inspired again to make things happen. 
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HOLIDAY HUMBUG

  What's on your mind today? Alcoholism! That is what is on my mind. Some say it is a sickness, it is a disease. I say it's a pain in the arse, especially to the one that does not consume this devil in disguise. The Christmas that we all know is the celebration of our Lord Jesus Christ's birth, however, the devil in disguise comes in to destroy and torment the minds and devour the souls. Celebrate in goodwill and don't let the demon win. Stop making everyone suffer because you can not control your demons, disease, and faults. Your disease spreads like wildfire, and it kills the souls of many little by little.
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Time to say Goodbye!

 You have taken my youth and now no one wants me.  You have taken my girlhood and made me into a scorned woman. You've taken my smile, and made me frown. You've taken my heart, love, and my patience and you took it all for granted.  You've taken my kind gestures and simple life and made it something that I can not bare. My voice is never heard because you lack listening skills. You don't see what is in front of you because you live in the past. The past is forgotten, mistakes have been made, but you never learn from it. You only keep it as a bad memory of what I have done but don't remember all the things that you have done to. I am sad and mad at myself that it took me 28 years to see it. Thinking that you will see and you will learn. But only what I see in the future is what you are so blind to see for yourself.  My journey starts as soon as you walk out that door. No more tears, sleepless nights, or remorse.
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Samoan Termites!

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 Does anyone have this problem? These termites fly at night as soon as the light in the house goes on. IT IS SO DAMN ANNOYING . Some say that it is going to be really hot or cold tomorrow. Some say it is a sign of bad weather. I just don't know what to believe. It is kind of funny how these so-called termites fly at night, then the wings fall off, then they crawl in the woods (laupapa) of the house. OMG!!! what an annoying insect.  How do you kill these things???? Comment and share.  Eve
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Making it Online? Don't believe the Hype!!!

 I am here to attest to the mumbo jumbo that is on the internet today. It feels like a roller coaster. People if you would like to invest in working from home, I suggest you do some real soul searching on how, what, where, and why. Something that can be so easy to some people and most difficult to those who want to learn. Because it is hard. Don't get mixed up in all the hype on the flashy ads and people telling you that it is easy. I really recommend that you go online, youtube, google search, and find out the truth for yourself. Because the information you provide yourself is more helpful to you rather than getting that information from someone else.  This is ridiculous!!! I am challenging myself to search and research all the information that is needed to succeed online.  The challenge is on!!! 
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